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A Marketing Expert's Guide to Finding the Woman of Your Dreams: Part 1

Maverick Steffen  -  1/5/2024

Before we start advertising your business, let's set up your store, and all of your products.

Let's get one thing straight: There's nothing more disheartening than two individuals bound together in regret because they chose poorly--I blame the men.

Consider this: According to a Pew Research Center study covering 130 countries and territories, the U.S. holds the record for the highest rate of children living in single-parent households.

This statistic is a sobering reminder of the consequences of mismatched partnerships.

I'm here to turn the tide. Together, we'll embark on a journey of self-improvement and strategic dating to ensure that you find and cherish the right woman.

As a Marketing Consultant that gets people what they want, my mission is to prevent this common tragedy by helping you become the best version of yourself and selecting a woman worthy of you.

It's all about understanding what women desire and effectively communicating your value to attract the right partner.

When you're optimized in every aspect, and understand how women think, the woman you desire will be the one you're with, ensuring a fulfilling and lasting relationship.

Usually I help clients find the best customers, but today I'm going to help you find and select the right woman so you will want her, and she will want you too, in perpetuity!

You see, between 2014 and 2017, I turned my knack for marketing advice into a consulting service, helping numerous private clients navigate the complexities of finding and dating women.

The genesis of this service was quite unexpected. It all started with a fencing client of mine.

He is a smart guy, yet when it came to the dating scene, he found himself losing more than winning.

Recognizing the value in the dating insights I shared during our casual conversations, he sought my help more formally.

This included everything from crafting his online dating profiles to devising conversation scripts for his dates. Despite his intelligence, he was incredibly shy and admittedly lacked the suave necessary to attract women.

Inspired by his trust and subsequent success, I extended these services to others in similar predicaments.

So, let me share with you the same foundational advice that transformed their dating experiences, and mine.

When looking for the woman of your dreams, understanding attraction is key.

In my humble opinion, it appears women often consider three primary factors when choosing a mate: physical attractiveness, resource availability, and personality archetype alignment.

1. The Power of Physical Attractiveness: Physical traits often serve as the first layer of attraction.

Characteristics like fat %, muscularity, and overall health are typically seen as signs of good genetics. These traits, while not the sole factors, can play a significant role in initial attraction.

According to Google scientists, women are drawn to one of many archetypes: The Vampire, The Werewolf, The Doctor, The Billionaire & The Pirate.

No matter what you look like, you need to be the physical perfection of what you can be. With a little work, you can go from a dorky computer geek to strapping jock. Look at Jeff Bezos.

2. Status and Provision: The ability to provide and the status of a man in society are also crucial.

Financial stability, ambition, and a stable career can be attractive as they suggest security and a promising future.

Just as making sound financial decisions can lead to a prosperous life, investing in your health and physical fitness can significantly impact your attractiveness and confidence.

Good nutrition and regular exercise not only improve your physical appearance but also your mental health and stamina.

Being the best version of yourself physically can have a profound effect on how you are perceived and, in turn, who you attract. After all, you never know when you might meet the one, and staying prepared ensures you are always at your best.

3. Personality Archetypes: According to Google scientists, women are drawn to one of many archetypes. These include:

  • The Vampire - Pros: Mysterious, charismatic, and emotionally intense. Con: Cold and detached
  • The Werewolf - Pros: Passionate, wild, and unpredictable. Con: Crazy
  • The Doctor - Pros: Caring, reliable, and conscientious. Con: Self-obsessed
  • The Billionaire - Pros: Wealthy, powerful, and generous. Con: Unemotional
  • The Pirate - Pros: Adventurous, unrestrained, and daring. Con: Stands for nothing

Understanding Her Preference: To attract the woman of your dreams, it's crucial to understand her archetype preference.

Often, this preference can be subtly observed through her relationship with her father, her past relationships, her responses to your behavior, and the fictional/nonfictional characters she admires.

The Importance of Compatibility: While you may attract someone initially, long-term compatibility is key.

It's essential to ensure that your genuine traits align with her preferences. Understand her deepest desires and fears through careful listening and observation.

I knew a very successful attorney with a beautiful young wife. Let's call him Eric. They were together for several years, and seemed to be the perfect, happy couple. That is until she left him for an unemployed ex-convict with 6-pack abs. Alas, she finally found her desired archetype, and it wasn't Eric.


Combined with the Archetypal difference between these men (Selecting a Pirate/Werewolf over a Doctor/Billionaire), finding a better genetic mate meant more to her than finding a man of means. In other words, her physical attraction trumped her need for resources. Eric should have known this!

Final Thoughts: Attraction is complex and deeply personal. While these factors can influence the dynamics of attraction, the most sustainable relationships are built on mutual respect, love, and shared values. It's not just about fitting into an archetype but being the best version of yourself.

Only by interacting with different personalities and types can one truly appreciate what they value and desire in a partner.

From my perspective, a man should strive to understand his preferences and desires deeply, and the best path to achieve this is to be with a lot of women. Get out and explore!

Do you think you will find the best woman by choosing between 5, or 200? It's simply the game of numbers and probabilities.

This isn't to promote promiscuity for its own sake but to emphasize the importance of experience and informed decisions in one's love life. Besides, you should not be sleeping with every woman you go out with--and you will not want to anyway. Trust me!

Ever hear the saying: you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find a prince? Yes, that applies to men as well.

Anecdotally, I've observed that the most dissatisfied men are often those who committed early without exploring their options or understanding themselves deeply.

They later find themselves envying others or feeling a sense of regret. This is where I believe the "mid-life crisis" stems from. Conversely, those who took the time to understand their wants and needs, who didn't rush into commitment, tend to build more fulfilling and lasting relationships.

They choose their partners based on a comprehensive understanding of their desires and compatibility, not out of desperation or fear of loneliness.

Think of understanding your archetype and what women are attracted to as the prep work you do before opening a store.

You wouldn't start inviting customers to a shop that isn't ready, right? The same goes for stepping into the dating world. Before you put yourself out there, make sure you're at your best. This means getting your appearance, social life, and financial status in order. It's about being the best you can be so when you do meet someone, you're ready to impress.

Rushing in before you're ready can lead to bad experiences and hurt your confidence. It's like opening a store with empty shelves; it's not going to work, and it's going to turn women away.

Instead, take the time to build yourself up and understand what makes you attractive and what you're looking for in a partner.

I'll be here to guide you through finding and attracting the types of women you're interested in. But before we dive into the how-to's of dating, take a week to think over this advice. Let it really sink in. Remember, finding the woman of your dreams is possible, and I'm here to help you make it happen.

In Part 2, we will begin advertising you to attract the women you desire.

To your success!


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